Sexual Clarity
for Christian Women
Reclaiming Your Sexual Identity After Betrayal
A 9-week study pointing to God’s design for married sexual experience for women overcoming the impact of sexual betrayal.
I’m sorry we are meeting like this.
Discovering you were betrayed through sexual infidelity or compulsivity is one of the most painful experiences a wife can endure. It’s a club no wife wants to join. I remember thinking, “How can I ever heal from this? Can I ever enjoy sexual intimacy, again, after this betrayal?”
Healing from this betrayal is possible. Sexual Clarity for Christian Women can help you gain better understanding of healthy, godly sexuality and sexual experience! Embracing who you are sexually as a Christian woman is very empowering. We will walk through steps to help you understand your sexual identity.
This curriculum was developed by me, Bonny Logsdon Burns. I am an APSATS certified partner coach with a long background in educating around marital sexual intimacy through a Christian lens. You can read more about me on my coaching page.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this course right for me?
This course is right for a woman who:
- Has experienced sexual betrayal in her marriage and is at a place of stability in her trauma healing.
- Is confused about how she wants to view sexuality and sexual experience.
- Wants to have choice about her sexual identity.
- Wants a greater understanding of what God says about sexual intimacy.
- Wants a greater understanding of her rights inside the bedroom and outside the bedroom as a person of inherent worth, dignity, and value.
- Wants to understand how to create boundaries around her sexuality and sexual experience.
How much does this cost?
The cost to attend this 9-week curriculum-based support group is $500.
What will be provided for the cost of this class?
- A pdf workbook is provided to you with information, Bible study, and a variety of expression around self-reflective questions. As a group, we will process through the homework from the previous week’s work during our time together.
- Zoom will be used to gather together.
- The time spent together will be 90 minutes every week.
- There is a maximum of 5 participants.
- The cost of this 9-week small group is $500.
What if I am separated or divorced from my husband?
While the curriculum does mention relational skills at certain points, you do not have to be married to take this class.
This class is designed to give you greater understanding of the components within a healthy godly sexual relationship and can help a separated or divorced woman know what healthy sexuality looks like if she ever were to re-marry.
Is this class from a Christian viewpoint?
Yes, this class is specific to Christian marital sexual intimacy. However, this class looks at the many facets that create a healthy sexual identity. Some topics are from secular sources but they do not contradict what scripture teaches. I present science and undergird it with a Christian foundation. All truth is God’s truth.
Is Sexual Clarity for Christian Women a small group or a class?
Sexual Clarity for Christian Women (SCCW) is a curriculum-based small group. At times there is education and at times you will be sharing your thoughts, emotions, and experiences. All the while, you are supported by an APSATS certified partner coach. My niche is sexual intimacy after betrayal.
Why am I leading a sexual identity class for betrayed wives?
I am a certified partner coach through the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS). I am a certified executive coach (ACC) ethically committed through the International Coaching Federation (ICF). I also am trained around the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM).
I have been researching and writing about Christian sexual relationship and ethics since 2012. I am now filtering what I learned through the lens of betrayal because I am a betrayed partner. God has uniquely equipped me to walk with you through this subject. I want to empower you with insight and understanding strictly from what the Bible teaches.
You can find me speaking on healthy, godly sexual intimacy with three other writes on the podcast, Sex Chat for Christian Wives. Read more about me here.
Do I have a sexual identity?
I'm struggling with God.
What is God's design of sexual experience?
How does trauma rupture my sexual identity?
Do I trust what God says about sex?
Female Sexual Structure and Function
What's grief got to do with it?
Jesus is our safe haven.
Boundaries
Healthy Sex vs. Unhealthy Sex
Getting Started is Easy
Free 20-Min. Chat
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What you can hope to gain from this 9-week small group.
Exclusive Workbook
The material you will use is not available anywhere else. It is written by me, Bonny Logsdon Burns.
Clarity
Even the apostle Paul states that sexual intimacy is a mystery. However, there are some things we can be sure of about God’s design of sexuality and sexual intimacy.
Understanding
With other betrayed wives, you’ll be seen and heard. There is a great possibility you’ll develop a few close friends through this group. Most of all, you will be supported as you grapple forward to greater understanding of the most vulnerable aspect of your identity.
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